Dose #2: Topic of Disscussion: Unrealistc Views on Popularity

There are a lot of people who think that they need to be the most popular, best dressed, have the most friends, and be the best looking. And I just think that that is so stupid so many people wast their time on this that they don't stop to see who is really there for them. They are constantly thinking "What will others think?", when they really need to be thinking "What do I think?" I use to be so scared of doing things and basically living my life until I had a change of scenery with people who were more accepting and cared about me. I realized most of the people I went to school with didn't give a crap about me before, and there not going to anytime soon. Also the "popular" kids, that I use to want to a part, mean nothing because a soon as one of their "friends" turn around, they stab them in back. And what's funny is the characteristics that they describe that they hate are more times than not, their characteristics. As soon as you stop caring what others think and just be yourself, you will feel so much better and so much more free. Truthfully, the only ones you should care about what they say and think, are the people you care about. Like I said before: These people you want to be like don't give,  they didn't give a crap about you before, and they're not gonna give a crap you. So why even want to be associated with them. If you cant be yourself around them, then you shouldn't care about them anyway.